I don’t know if this is just me, just Harvard, or if I’m on to something of an actual truth here, but it seems to me that everybody’s writing. Were I more cynical, I would actually say everybody’s just writing. And writing is great; it’s an absolute necessity in my life, and no matter what I’ll be dedicating my time to, writing will be a part of it, even if just for internal or personal use. But as much as I love writing, there’s a whole lot more to life than writing; at some point, I want to stop writing and start doing.Read More
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Some time early last semester, it must’ve been September or October, but it feels like forever ago, a few other students and I had the opportunity to have lunch with the very interesting Jill Lepore. At some point in the conversation, Lepore said the following:
“Very few problems are actually new.”
I haven’t quite been able to let Lepore’s statement go — it’s been on my mind a lot; I agree with it in a way, yet I want to scream bloody in another.Read More
A number of ideas pop through my head every day; small things, mostly, mixed with the occasional bigger concept. I write them down. I decide they're not worth pursuing (just yet). I deem them only OK, not good enough to be shared, to be thought about further, not iterated upon enough yet. This goes to answer why I tend to be careful with sharing fragile ideas.Read More
Recently, I opened and closed my last English-speaking MUN conference as Secretary General, the conference my school hosts, the Elephant Model United Nations (ELMUN). It was awesome but also sad in some ways, since it felt like the first of many goodbye's that are to come for me. I delivered two speeches as part of my duty, both of which apparently achieved their goals. I have been asked several times whether they would be published somewhere – so without further ado, here they are:Read More
Two years ago, I celebrated my first Thanksgiving with my host family – it was lovely and I think of Thanksgiving as the nicest holiday to be celebrated, so first of all I am thankful to have been able to create that memory! I don’t care too much for Christmas, as I don’t care too much for Christianity; I couldn’t care less about my birthday because what the hell do I need to celebrate that for, I party hard and show the world it should be glad to have me 24/7/365.Read More
Henning Sussebach wandte sich geradezu herzzerreißend an seine Tochter Marie, um ihr davon zu berichten, wie schrecklich ihre Kindheit und die Erwartungen an sie seien. Während das zwar gut klingt und zum Teil sicherlich auch stimmt, ist das Problem, das sich im deutschen Bildungssystem zweifelsohne finden lässt, mal wieder völlig verfehlt worden.Read More
I recently tweeted about the irony of having to study what to study before you can actually study it. I've quite literally been spending most of my time since the beginning of my vacation on making the most impacting life-decision I have yet had to make: What to study and most of all: Where?Read More
I strive for perfection, although I am fully aware most of the time I will never achieve it. The one thing in life I decided I would not settle for anything less than perfection is love.Read More
You know how people say one shouldn't judge books by their covers? Well, I couldn't disagree more. I'm "Different in a Different Way", and I would love for others to understand my thinking behind certain things - including why I believe covers matter!Read More
I haven't had a lot to write about in the past few days because nothing happened (well, in school at least), and nobody cares that I watched the Bourne Trilogy this weekend (and found it awesome). But then I read this article in The Guardian and finally felt like I had something to say again.
I am German. Well, genetically I'm 50% German and 50% Italian, but I grew up in Germany, my Dad's been living in Germany for many years, and I always thought of myself as German. (When I'm under Italians I'm Italian, though. It's great to be able to choose sometimes.) I'm a proud German, too. I believe that Germans need to stop feeling guilty for a crime none of us have committed. Our history is more than unfortunate, and yes, there is certainly a responsibility we carry, but there is no reason whatsoever not to be proud of our country. Americans, Italians, the French, the British - every formerly imperialistic country has a certain responsibility, which is naturally attached to a certain guilt. But should that past form generation after generation in such a way that it is a burden to be German?
Let me be very clear: What happened in Germany (and Europe) due to incredibly idiotic but unfortunately intelligent people in the 1930's and early 40's is inexcusable. The fact that some similarly stupid people still have remotely related ideas today is terrible. But I am not one of those people. Nor are any of the Germans I know personally (and most Germans I don't know personally). I think the number of Germans who share national socialistic ideals is low but will never be reduced to zero - neither will the number of national socialistic Americans, Italians, French, or British, though. Dumb people exist all over the world.
Germans are not Nazis just because the Nazis were German.
I sense some sort of fear of revenge for the fact that historically speaking, and in comparison to many parts of the world, we have it good right now.
~Bernhard Schlink, author of the great book The Reader, in the formerly linked Guardian article.
I find the pessimism of many Germans just as troubling as the apparent existence of the thought of current Germany as a "Fourth Reich". Excuse me, but that is a ton of bullshit. I am not enough of an expert on the financial crisis to clarify exactly why Germany "has it good right now" (better than others, maybe, but good?), maybe we got lucky, maybe we made the right decisions at the right time, but that's how life goes sometimes (in capitalism anyways - that's an argument that goes too far at this point). You definitely cannot make a point that Germany doesn't want Europe to succeed, or that it was acting particularly greedy.
And still we Germans ask ourselves: "How long can it go on like this? Aren't we overdue for the crisis to hit us as well? Do we even deserve to have it this good?" I ask you: Why wouldn't we? What have we, the last two generations of Germans, done that we wouldn't deserve to have it good? We haven't started a world war, we haven't killed any jews or discriminated anyone. We're a great country, we have great diversity, and we deserve to be proud of ourselves, maybe even because we have it good right now.
If we don't fight for Europe, we're Nazis and want nothing to do with the world? If we do fight for Europe, however, we're an imperialistic Fourth Reich Germany, a whole new generation of Nazis?
I'm not saying we should forget about our history. We should indeed learn from it, we should be aware, perhaps more aware than anyone else, and we should have our eyes open at all times, but we don't need to feel guilty.
A few years ago there were Israeli exchange students at our school. I was among the lucky German students to accompany them to the close by concentration camp of Bergen-Belsen, where Anne Frank's memorial grave is located, and they invited us to attend a memorial service they held for their ancestors. It was very emotional, very interesting, and we were very thankful to be allowed to take part in the service. In turn they were grateful we attended. It was intercultural understanding at its best. We understood each other. The Israeli didn't expect us to be guilty, but simply sympathetic and empathetic. And we were, of course, because what happened to minorities in Nazi-Germany was horrible.
The difference between one generation to the next is huge already. A teacher broke out in tears during the ceremony because his father had been a member of the SS. I can see how that is yet a different situation, and everybody has to deal with the historic burden in a different way - but I pledge for a generation of Germans who can be proud of themselves. I went to the United States for a year as a representative of a bright Germany with delightful people, intelligent people, people who are proud, who love their country, but who love all other countries and countrymen just as much. That is who we are and who we should be!